At some point, we must assess who and what is worthy of our time and what is not. Whether it be people, places or things; if we are continuously putting more time and effort into something than we are getting out of it, we must walk away. It is ok to limit the time that we waste on people. Time is more valuable than money; money we can recover, time we cannot.
When we stay in relationships past the expiration date, we must ask ourselves why we allowed our time to be wasted. The person didn’t do anything to us. We did it to ourselves by staying around and repeatedly accepting behaviors that we were unhappy with. We teach people how to treat us by what we will accept. Why are we continuing to accept less than we deserve from people who do nothing for our betterment? We wonder why we get stuck in situations yet continue to run back to people who have nothing to offer us…who have shown a lack of concern for our feelings by their disrespect…Do we think so little of ourselves that we lower our standards simply to keep from being lonely? ABSOLUTELY! Most won’t admit it, but it’s clear from the poor choice of mates. Let go of the security…that man/woman is no good for you. Wait on the right mate for you so that you can Walk into your greater with the one that God has chosen for you!
MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS!