We determine our own worth. I say this, because there is a huge difference between wanting something, and needing something. A want, is a thing that is desired or preferred. A need is a thing that is essential for sustainability; one is needed for the other.
If in fact, the meanings of want and need are as I defined, although it happens, we should never be in a position to need anyone. When we are wanted, it is usually genuine love. When we want an individual, rather than need them, we should not be afraid of setting standards, and holding to them.
Self love ❤️ teaches us that when we know our worth, we never lower our value. When we are truly in love with ourselves, we are able to love freely and engage in relationships out of want and not need. Therefore, needing someone in our life, will more than likely bring us to lowering our standards and ignoring the crossed boundaries, for the fear of losing that someone.
When you pull yourself together, you will realize, after all that you’ve been through, that the person you believed was essential, was just a want. You did not need them to survive. YOU ARE FIERCE!!! STOP GIVING OTHERS CREDIT FOR YOUR SUSTAINABILITY. You need two things to survive, AIR and WILL. God, not man, gives both. We must cease the lowering of our standards, and go after what we want. This will prevent us from being in need of anyone but God and ourselves, and we have a greater chance of never finding ourselves in a place of lack again.
Dani❤️💋
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