Today, would have been my anniversary yall. December 3, 1998 was the day fateful day. WHO KNEW? Lord, I could say so much, but I’m just gonna say, THANK YOU,GOD, FOR MY SANITY!!! IYKYK. I thought it would never end…BUT GOD!!! Listen, I never celebrate divorce. I love ❤️ love. I believe in marriage and healthy relationships. I never understood divorce parties, and thought they were sad. I Still do. I also believe in people doing what’s best for them. I said, at one point, I wanted a divorce party. Now, I’m simply glad the MFN MADNESS IS OVER!!!!!!! I can actually begin to really, live my life 🙃 🙂. Although celebrating 🍾 with a divorce party, for some, may be deemed inappropriate, putting this four and a half year baby to bed, at least, deserves a celebratory 🍾 toast.
No, even if I don’t believe in celebrating the end of a marriage, I do, believe in celebrating peace and happiness for someone. I believe in celebrating new life. If peace and happiness can only come by the relationship or marriage ending, that is sad; yet necessary, and should be celebrated. I have been sad…enough… miserable enough…hurt enough…broken enough, during this process. Now, I celebrate 🍾 happiness, fulfillment, restoration, and peace.
Too often, we allow the world to place expectations on us, based on what THEY think we should be. All that this is doing is causing people to remain in unhealthy relationships and hide their issues for fear of judgement. When we do what’s best for us, we become happier, overall. We are able to freely choose happier and healthier relationships. This realization and fresh start, should be reason to celebrate 🍾ourselves and one another.
What God can do when you pray, discern ,trust, hope, and believe is amazing. Trust that things will work out in God’s time. Hold on and don’t give up. What you’re going through is for a purpose.
God allows us to use our pain to encourage others and support them through their process. Unless we go through the fire ourselves, we cannot protect others who are in the flames.
I am thankful for each individual that God has placed in my path who has encouraged me through my process. If it were not for them, I would not have made it through. Continue to pray 🙏 for my strength. Know that you’ve got this, and I’m here for support.
GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I !
Dani ❤️ 💋
Turning My Pain into My Prayerful Purpose
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