It’s ironic how people never realize what Domestic Violence can do to an individual, and ultimately, a family. I’m referring to any form of Domestic Violence. Wether it be physical, mental, emotional, sexual, or financial. Any type of abuse can be devastating, period. The lies, hate, and manipulation that is involved, completely destroys relationships, and it saddens me. This especially holds true, when the abuse results in divorce or any type of relationship ending.
Each situation is different, and every victim is affected in various ways. This is why it is important for each person to tell their own story. It is also important to understand that domestic violence is everyone’s business, and no situation is more or less important than, another.
Another form of domestic violence takes place in the workplace. Unfortunately, workplace violence is becoming increasingly common. Victims are being physically assaulted; some even murdered, as a result of unresolved, ongoing issues in the workplace. Although these situations are becoming more prevalent, it doesn’t make them ok.
It is a must, that we take any form of abuse seriously. Physical abuse is easily identifiable, however, the trauma of mental, financial and emotional abuse can be devastating. Especially when dealing with a narcissist, life can seem unbearable. Whether in a marriage, in the workplace, and yes, EVEN IN CHURCH, Narcissistic Abuse is real. What may begin as petty differences, will turn into a living nightmare. The marriage, job, social circles and even places of worship, that once showed you love, appreciation and acceptance, will quickly turn into places of hate, bullying, alienation, control, sabotage and more.
IT IS NOT YOU! Empaths are purpousely sought out by narcissists because of our loving and caring nature. The intent, of the narcissist, from the beginning, is to use us for our caring spirit, love, and strength and then gain control. When they are unable to control us, we become of no use. Soon after, the gaslighting and manipulation will begin. There is always emotional and mental abuse, and oftentimes, the abuse turns physical. In social circles, workplaces and yes, places of worship, HARASSMENT AND BULLYING is the common culture. Retaliation, alienation, and sabotage are often used.
Please understand that narcissistic abuse is not new. It has simply been going on, and has been accepted for far too long. The stories being shared by so many people are saddening. Things must change, and they must change now. We cannot continue to live, work, socialize and worship, in these toxic and mentally unhealthy environments, and think that the situations around us will improve. We must make being kind and decent people normal again in order to set the example for those coming after us. LETS DO BETTER. When you see the red flags, EXIT IMMEDIATELY. THERE IS NO FIXING OR CHANGING A NARCISSISTIC PERSON. THEY WILL ALWAYS BLAME YOU.
BE KIND. BE THE CHANGE YOU SEEK.
GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I
Dani💋❤️
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