GOD MADE ME DIFFERENT

The fact of the matter is, far too many, people, walk around with blinders on. These blinders are not only visual impairments; they impair us spiritually, by preventing us from showing love, and having faith. As a result, we often lose hope. When we remove the blinders from our eyes, we are able to see things from a world view, and ultimately, we develop the need to fix some of the broken pieces.

Unfortunately, some people will never care to improve what does not directly affect them. This leaves only a small percentage of us, who will choose to make a difference. At some point, in order to help others, we must stop being concerned with outer appearances, and look into the hearts of others. Being empathetic has allowed me to realize, that there isn’t happiness behind every smile, and there isn’t sadness in every tear. In addition, I’ve developed the ability to see when others are in need of love. I also can see the inability of others to show love. More importantly, I’m able to do what many can’t…love without conditions, assist without judging, and listen without the need to know why.

Too often, blinders prevent us from being the change in the world, because we simply cannot move past OUR PERCEPTION of what others endure. We assume, that if a person “looks good” they are without need. This falacy is what keeps so many people from receiving the love and assistance they desperately need and deserve. When we help without assumption and judgement, others are able to flourish. As a result, we place ourselves in a better place to succeed together. We must, however, first, remove the blinders, and listen, in order to discern our purpose.

As I navigate through my own season of turbulence, I continue to see the struggles of others. There is so much pain that I see in their eyes, and I hear their call for help from the cry in their voices. I empathize with their cries for help…I feel their hurt. I too, was each of them. Their stories are similar to mine. Their tears flow like mine…the pain…all of it…feels so familiar…and I must help.

I seek to be the ear, the voice of reason, the words of encouragement, and a light in darkness. God has called me, in my discernment, to be to others, what for so long, no one was for me…support.

I believe that the only way we can peacefully coexist, and live with joy and purpose, is to be an unwavering support for each other. This means seeing all people with the naked eye, and allowing God to use us without judgement, envy, ill intent or fear. We cannot assume that others are without need because of outer appearances, and we must end our assumptions that they are less than, or are beneath us, because of their past.

When our purpose is given by God, we have no reason to fear hurt, betrayals, ill intentions or false motives. Our faith tells us that God will protect and guide us, as we use our light, to spread to each one who needs us, one brother…one sister…one young person, at a time.

It took me some time, but I came to realize, that being mad is a wasted energy. When people fail to stand up for what is right, or support others, they usually cannot stand up for themselves. This realization has allowed me to be ok with fighting alone. Although tiring, I accept the assignment that God has laid before me. I realize, that leadership is born in me. Because of this, I know that I will, at times, be required to stand alone, and it is ok. Because God walks with me, I am confident that He is guiding me, and making a way. He will continue to protect me from the wars that lie ahead. I AM PURPOSED FOR THIS. GOD MADE ME DIFFERENT.

Each of us is built differently, and I know firsthand, that my strength, transparency and willingness to love, are gifts. It takes special people to make a difference. People who show leadership, strength, conviction, determination and passion…who are not afraid to stand alone…We are a threat. GOD MADE US DIFFERENT, and He expects different from us. We must act differently, do different things, speak differently, and just BE DIFFERENT. I’ve always known that I AM DIFFERENT, and I am unapologetically, me. I love being different.

On this beautiful Thursday, on day 16 of Mental Health Awareness Month, I encourage everyone to BE DIFFERENT. No matter what you face, understand that God has purposed you for this assignment. You will make the difference in this world, if you keep going. Remember, it takes EMOTIONAL FORTITUDE to survive in a world, where you refuse to accept the bare minimum, from people who are giving their bare minimum, simply to appear to have something of value; yet, deep down, those same people are afraid to admit, what they have is really worth Nothing.

When you strive to make a difference, and see the benefits of helping others, you’ll realize, that nothing in this world matters more, than being DIFFERENT. This feeling is worth more than anything. The joy, peace, love and happiness that fills my life, simply from striving to make a difference, is worth more than what any man thinks of me. In a world of constant confusion and uphill battles, my being different brings me peace, and the value of that peace, is EVERYTHING.

THANK YOU GOD FOR MAKING ME DIFFERENT!

Dani💋❤️

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