I can’t make this stuff up. While I am doing everything, in my power, to move forward, this man, literally, continues to do all he can, to drag this divorce out. IT’S BEEN FIVE YEARS, AND STILL, I’M FIGHTING. He has done all he could, for five years, to avoid paying child support, scam me out of my portion of the settlement, and turn my children against me.
In addition to those things I’ve mentioned, He has been angry because he could no longer hide from child support. The sad part in all of this is, oftentimes, he has refused to show up for my children, in order to spite me. Knowing how difficult it has been for us financially, he seeks to prevent me from getting out of debt, by refusing to assist our children in any way. Now, everytime my adult children have a crisis, his response is “I’m paying your mother xyz in child support “. This is his attempt to make me unable to do anything other than struggle, and force me, with the little I have, to assit the children. The child support he’s repaying, is a debt that he refused to pay, five years ago.
I WISH HE WOULD STOP TELLING MY SON THAT WHAT I RECIEVE, BELONGS TO HIM. This manipulation, is an attempt to cause friction between my children and I. The fact that he refuses to be honest, and tell our son, that he refuses to even attempt to help him, proves to me, that he seeks to watch me hurt, and struggle. His being with me for over twenty years, makes him aware that I will do everything I can to help my children; including, giving them my last. For a father to be unconcerned with hurting the mother of his children, rather than ensure their well-being, is crazy work. It is sick, and sad.
Now, it’s confirmed that he or his minions are trolling my page. He often sends screenshots of my posts, asking my son “is this how you feel?”. If he were the great father he tried to portray to the world, how my son saw him, wouldn’t be a concern. The combination of his actions, show a lack of concern for our children, and this man’s true character.
Because our opinions were never respected, on several occasions, my son went months, without contact with this so called, father of the year. The silent treatment, was usually the punishment, for failing to do, say, or think, how he wanted us to think. Failing to ensure that my son received his much needed surgery, was my breaking point. Unfortunately, our children showing up for him, continues to take precedence over him showing up for them.
I refuse to allow anyone, to cause any further mental anguish to my children. Enough damage has been done already. We are presentlytrying to recover from the damage that has already been caused, and repair our damaged relationships. All I want is justice. We deserve to be at peace. I need to settle this case, and receive a fresh start, in order to move forward with my life. I am unable to fight this battle alone any longer. I NEED HELP. 😢
The damage that is done, from dealing with a narcissist is real. While many people think the tactics they use are made up, and exaggerated, the effects are real. Loving a narcissist, is mentally, physically, and financially draining, and for some, the results can even be deadly.
IF YOU SEE THE SIGNS Of SOMEONE WITH NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER, GET AWAY FROM THEM IMMEDIATELY. A NARCISSIST WILL NEVER CHANGE, NEVER STOP THEIR MANIPULATION, THEY WILL CREATE FALSE NARRATIVES, THEY WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU ALONE, AND THEY WILL NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU WIN. YOU MUST Seek therapy, in order to heal from their damage.
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