Because they don’t believe you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
Because you mention their faults and betrayals, doesn’t mean you are judging.
Because you want reciprocal love, doesn’t mean that your heart isn’t genuine.
Because you remind those who hurt you, of what you did out of love, doesn’t mean that you’re holding it over their head.
Because they have been there for you in the past, doesn’t mean you have to tolerate their abuse.
Because you walk away, doesn’t mean that you never cared.
Because you choose to love yourself, and put you first, doesn’t make you selfish.
Because you choose not to help, doesn’t make you wrong.
Because you spoke your truth…told your story, doesn’t mean you’re defaming them.
Because they fail to support you, doesn’t negate your truth.
Because they walked away, doesn’t mean that you wronged them.
Because they are family, doesn’t mean that you have to tolerate their mistreatment.
Because you can’t get them to assist you, doesn’t mean your ideas aren’t great.
Because your stuggles seem insurmountable, doesn’t mean that you should give up.
Because you are outspoken and fight for yourself, doesn’t mean you are bitter.
Please know, that this world is evil. Others will use your strength to make you the aggressor. No matter how giving, loving and kind you are, they are determined to minimize all you’ve done, and make you the villian. Understand, that your transparency and unconditional love, threatens your enemy. Don’t stop being who you are.
What you have to realize, is that people are uncomfortable with themselves, and will look down on you for being who you are. They will lie to you, and on you. They will sabotage your relationships, block you from your blessings, and attempt to control your growth. DON’T LET THEM.
When someone is jealous, they will do all they can, to emulate you and steal your life. Even when you think they are doing better than you, they simply envy who you are. Unfortunately, everyone does not have your loving, caring, and genuine heart. Because of their misery, your peace and your happiness upsets them. They hate the way others love you, just by being you. When you love yourself, can accept your faults, and can walk alone, they feel threatened.
Never dim your light to allow others to shine. Continue to do the work that God has purposed for you. Shrinking yourself, allows your haters to stay relevant, so be your unapologetic self.
On this 14th Day of Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, you are not imagining what others are doing to you. The hate, alienation, and bullying is real. Dry your eyes, hold your head up, and continue to be the bad ass that you are. REMEMBER TO KEEP ON PUSHING. Keep making your struggle look easy. Ignore the haters, because they could never walk a mile in your shoes. Keep making a difference in the lives of others. Keep loving yourself, and continue to turn your pain into your prayerful purpose.
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