I am wrary of those who constantly worry about what others are doing. There is something wrong with you if all you can do is worry about why a woman is single. WHY DO YOU CARE? WOMEN WITH SELF-LOVE, WHO KNOW THEIR VALUE, DON’T NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE, ARE HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES, ARE ENJOYING LIFE, AND CAN BE HAPPY WITH OR WITHOUT A RELATIONSHIP. Why is it ok for a man to be a bachelor and happy, but a woman is deemed worthless if single?
Some of you are out here struggling being with people you don’t even like, all for the sake of saying you’re in a relationship. Your relationship sucks, yet you worry about who isn’t in one…THAT’S CRAZY WORK. PLEASE HEAL…LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT MARRIAGE ISN’T A FLEX IF YOURE NOT HAPPY, AND A STRONG MENTAL HEALTH, SOLID RELATIONSHIP, AND HAPPINESS IS THE REAL FLEX.
No wonder people are messed up. Some of you are out here telling people to settle for what they don’t want, all for the purpose of saying “I’m married”. Then, when it’s a toxic relationship, or it fails, you talk about them…WE HAVE GOT TO DO BETTER. Please ladies, stop allowing BITTER, BROKE, MISERABLE MEN TO DICTATE YOUR HAPPINESS. GET MARRIED BECAUSE YOU WANT TO, AND NOT BECAUSE YOU NEED TO, or are being guilted into doing so.
Marriage is a beautiful institution, when the couple is equally yoked, and desiring the same things, but it takes REAL WORK. Marriage is a partnership…a commitment, and should be forever. Marriage is morecthan a piece of paper, a ring, or just wanting the title. It’s not about control or NEEDING someone. It’s not even about love. It’s about understanding, mutual respect, and loyalty. Sometimes, during a marriage, the love will fade, but the expectation of the commitment should always be there. If you aren’t ready for the trials that may come along with I DO, then DON’T, and don’t allow others to make you feel badly about it.
In my opinion, if you are with someone, and not sure if they are marriage material, THEY PROBABLY AREN’T. This is my opinion, based on my observations. I SAID WHAT I SAID.
IT’S TIME TO CHOOSE YOU.
CHOOSE JOY
Dani💋❤️
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