Author Archives: dyingtobeperfect1926

I’ts the end of another day. Already, we are fourteen days into a new year, and I’m fourteen days into healing from my surgery. Today has been a good day. I’m feeling better, and I’m healing. Each day, though still hurting, I am slowly, and constantly healing. Thankfully, today is Another Day of Progress. FinallyContinue reading “Another Day Of Progress”

Having someone who makes you a Big Deal is top tier. In 2025, we are choosing the people who show their love, by how they care for us, serve us, protect us and prioritize us. No longer are we dealing with excuses, lies, love bombing, selfishness,  and cheating. We are saying NO to onesided relationships.Continue reading “You’re a Big Deal”

Lord, as you heal my body, please heal my mind. Only you know the physical pain that I have been dealing with for this past year. You know my heart, and you know how this pain has manifested into mental anguish. I ask, that as you heal me, you do so not just mentally andContinue reading “My Healing Prayer”

With all of the devastating events taking place in this world, 2025 has already been a tumultuous year. Within one week, there has been a multitude of lives lost due to jealousy, hatred, unresolved mental health issues, greed, and just pure evil. If we intend to truly THRIVE, and STAY ALIVE in 2025, we mustContinue reading “Don’t Just SURVIVE…THRIVE”

As I wind down for the evening, in preparation for tomorrow’s surgery, I am fearful of the unknown. Not being able to communicate with my children, prior to surgery, makes me uneasy. Not knowing what will happen, and the inability to control the outcome, has caused my anxiety to kick in. My fear has meContinue reading “My FAITH Is Stronger Than My FEARS”

The fear of my upcoming surgery keeps me awake. The unknown has me anxious. I have no regrets. I am at Peace. I have Joy. I still have Hope I have pure Love I have no regrets I have fallen. I got back up. I have no regrets. My life has been blessed. I haveContinue reading “Living With No Regrets”

As I walk in the fluffiness of the snow, I hear nothing except the crunch under my feet. The crisp air, the flakes falling on my face, and yes, the cold snow that falls on my tongue; I feel a cleansing. The cold air, and it’s freshness, the wetness of the flakes on my face…it’sContinue reading “A Cleansing”

When I say “I am a safe space “, I mean that you can tell me about anything.  I will listen, and never judge. I will offer advice, I will share my story, in hopes of helping your situation, I will be transparent, and help you if I am able. No matter how big orContinue reading “I’m a SECRET KEEPER”

I PRAY THAT YOU ARE INSPIRED Click on the link at the end. Happy FRIIIIIDAAAAYYY YALL. On this third day of the new year, I want to encourage you. No matter what you’re facing, God is right by your side. He sees all that you’re going through. I want you to know that He willContinue reading “God Said, DON’T GIVE UP”

It is totally unbelievable to me, that we are at the beginning of another year. As I think about all that I’ve been through in 2024, I realize that the amount of struggles I’ve faced is no greater than the struggles of others. Life has been lifeing for all of us, and we all deserveContinue reading “LET’S THRIVE IN 2025!”