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Happy Wednesday! As I sit here, I’m trying to hold back the tears, but they won’t stop flowing. As I look at the calendar, I am reminded, that it is yet another year, coming to a close, with no resolution, to the madness. Six years, and still…HERE I AM. Six Thanksgivings, Six Christmases, and yes…SixContinue reading “Six Years…No Resolution”

It’s three days before Thanksgiving, and I’m doing all I can, to remain positive. Every year, around this time, the HOLIDAY BLUES start to kick in. Because I’m conscious of it, l work to intentionally, fight through the depression. What people don’t understand, is that when we have trauma, or are grieving, during the holidays,Continue reading “HOLIDAY HURT”

Happy Friday,On a regular basis, I meet women, who say that they want genuine, sisterly relationships. Why is it, then, that when the opportunity presents itself, those same women, don’t take advantage of forming healthy, sisterly relationships? Not everyone will gel; however, we can form individual bonds within a larger bond. Relationships are important. ThereContinue reading “Have Faith Friday”

Good morning my beautiful family HAPPY THURSDAY! I’m calling today, Turn it around Thursday. As we approach the end of the week, let’s not get weary about our failures; instead, get excited about the opportunity to TURN THINGS AROUND! Whatever has been lost, we can still recoup. Relationships…jobs…money…families…no matter what the situation is, we canContinue reading “Turn it Around Thursday”

Happy Tuesday!!! As I write this, I know that this is our WINNING SEASON!https://youtu.be/ZNfaHTcTF-U?si=M2VzTSRhZ_rYlQAV IT’S TRUST GOD Tuesday. Let’s use today to lean on God for all of our worries. Brothers and Sisters, please know, that whenever there is an attempt for positive change, the enemy will come to seek, kill, and destroy. He willContinue reading “BEWARE OF THE ENEMY”

During a time, when much of the world is going through many struggles, I find that the shame of what others think and feel, has muted a lot of individuals. As a result, too many are suffering from mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety, but failing to seek help. This post is aContinue reading “MENTAL HEALTH CHECK”

Envy is a mind trick of the enemy. Be happy for, and support others. When we come together and build up one another, we all succeed. WE CAN ACHIEVE MORE TOGETHER. Help others, and you will be blessed. Dani💋❤️ Mind, Body, Spirit MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS!!! Defy the Stigma!

Happy Sunday evening, Yall. TRUE STORY:Tonight, I had the pleasure of proclaiming the word, for our Black Catholic History Month Mass. Although I’ve been doing this since seventh grade, I still get nervous. The Archbishop of Baltimore, and priests from other Black churches, within the city, were all present. Even the pastor from my formerContinue reading “HOT FLASHES ARE NO JOKE”

It’s been nearly two weeks, since I’ve written. I usually aim to write daily, but I just haven’t been motivated. Although life has been ok, between being sick, traveling, and just resting, I haven’t been able to find the time to write. As I sit on this train, unable to close my eyes, the motivationContinue reading “A Train Ride on A Friday”

Today, I PRAYED Today, I broke a HEART Today, I PRAYED Today, I shed a TEAR Today, I PRAYED Today, I SMILED Today, I PRAYED Today, I WALKED away Today, I PRAYED Today, I CHOSE ME Today, after years of setbacks, heartbreaks, heartaches, struggles, losses, and disappointments, I put me first. I set aside allContinue reading “TODAY”