Author Archives: dyingtobeperfect1926

FYI People who truly love and support you, show up for you. They naturally help you and love you, even when they are hurting. They check on you, pray for and with you. They encourage you. Their love and support is unwavering. This speaks to their character; their core. Even in our own pain, weContinue reading “Keep Showing Up”

Don’t ever think your enemy isn’t lurking. He’s waiting and watching. He’s using others to keep him informed. The enemy can be anyone, but often, he’s someone who once proclaimed to love you. Pay close attention, because he will reveal himself, and the hurt can be devastating. This is especially true when dealing with aContinue reading “This Time Around”

I can’t make this stuff up. While I am doing everything, in my power, to move forward, this man, literally, continues to do all he can, to drag this divorce out. IT’S BEEN FIVE YEARS, AND STILL, I’M FIGHTING. He has done all he could, for five years, to avoid paying child support, scam meContinue reading “It’s a Bird, It’s a plane, It’s a NARCISSIST”

I’m just sitting here reflecting. I handled today’s events very well. I have a long way to come, but I’m so much better than where I was. Even Snickerdoodle and I had a much better outcome than we normally do, compared to how things have been going. I am grateful for this positive change. WeContinue reading “Never Alone”

It’s Saturday, August 10, 2024. The days and weeks are swiftly going by, but this has simply been another beautiful day. I am simply thankful. Although difficult, I find good in every error of my life, no matter how difficult. I’ve decided that, I am going to enjoy every moment, and spend every opportunity IContinue reading “Grateful For Each New Day”

Happy Thursday Yall!!! I’m Thankful for today!!!! Some of you know how much the relationship between me and my children mean to me. The effects that the dissolution of my marriage has had on my relationships have been damaging; ruining many. The relationships with my children, however, have concerned me more than anything. Noah andContinue reading “Transparency leads to HEALING”

Happy Wednesday Yaaaalllll!!!! HAPPY HUMP DAY!!! What a word I received on this morning, during Morning Motivation. Today’s word was right on time, because afters two decades, I am finally seeing the manifestation of my dreams. Even in the midst of my storms, I see God working, and I know that with God, dreams neverContinue reading “Pain Lead Me To My Purpose”

It’s the first Friday of the month, and I’m exited! I’ve accomplished a great deal today. Finally checking off more than two things on my to do list, is major for me. Not only is Noah proud of me, he helped me to accomplish a small goal. In addition to physically helping, he encouraged me,Continue reading “There Is POWER In THE TOUNGE”

A Day, and month of New Beginnings… On this first Thursday of the month, and the first day of August, 2024, let today be the first day of a new beginning. As we each progress with our daily lives, may we forever be reminded, that life’s difficulties are what builds our character. I call it,Continue reading “A Day of New Beginnings”

It’s the end of a new month, and the end of another life. Today, Wednesday, July 31, 2024, another angel went home. My angel is beginning her new life with God. I’ve lost so many over these past five years…another friend who became family…a mother figure. My heart hurts…again. 💔I know that death is aContinue reading “Beginning a New Life”