Author Archives: dyingtobeperfect1926

Life has brought me to my knees more times than I can count. It’s ok though; it was while I was on my knees, that I decided to pray. After nothing I did seemed to work, I decided to allow God to guide me. From my pain,  I found peace. Only God has  been ableContinue reading “On My Knees”

Im up. I’m praying…thinking…wondering…planning. I remember, not long ago, I was worrying…crying…hurting. When I decided to heal, allowing God to be in control of my life has brought about peace…pure joy. My story hasn’t been pretty…My life hasn’t been easy. Since I’ve chosen to trust God, and stand on my faith, my life has beenContinue reading “In This Season”

Happy Sunday!!! Today was a beautiful day. I went to church, and service was beautiful. It was simply, a beautiful Summer day. After what started on Monday, as a difficult week, I prayed my way into an amazing and fulfilling weekend. God showed who He is by showing up and turning my trials into tranquility.Continue reading “My Breakthrough Is COMING”

The most traumatic heartbreak thus far for me, wasn’t seeing my children broken hearted. It wasn’t the abandonment.  Nope, it wasnt the lies or the infidelity.  It was the betrayal. People will beg us to trust them.  Against our better judgment we lower our defenses, and then BOOM! 😪🤯 Loving and trusting after trauma isContinue reading “Repeat Trauma”

I need a hug y’all. There is so much happening at one time y’all. I really need a pick me up. I need a hug…a date with my bff’s…a girls night…a vacation…some money…some good news…Something! I haven’t been to therapy since I started on this new medical insurance. I have to find a new therapist;Continue reading “THE LIFE OF AN EMPATH”

Happy Tuesday! I have something on my mind today. Well, to be honest…I have EVERYTHING on my mind today. There is TOO much on my mind today. There is so much on my mind, that I find myself unable to think clearly. As I attempt to organize all that is happening, and I think aboutContinue reading “This Time, I’m WAITING”

In spite of our hurt, 💔 it’s important to remember that we can’t allow the deception of others to harden our heart. I’ve met some amazing people on my journey of healing and restoration. For this reason, I will never allow the betrayal and deception of a few, cause me to lose sight of theContinue reading “Just Be Real”

Trying to change who I am in order to fit the narrative of what others think of me has never been an option. Changing my attitude in order to be who God wants me to be will always be an option.When we change to please God, He sees our heart and helps us to becomeContinue reading “I Choose God”

In order to change the trajectory of your life, sometimes accountability is required. We can’t expect elevation without having self awareness. A part of self love is self awareness. Without both, there is no change. It’s impossible to correct one’s self if we don’t see our faults.You can’t expect different results doing the same oldContinue reading “Accountability Matters”

It’s Self-love Self-care Saturday. Never forget that Self-love is not selfish…it’s necessary. Let’s rise and shine. Be grateful 🙏 for another day. Today is all about you, so make it count. I love yall. Have an amazing day on Purpose. Dani💋❤️ Mind, Body, Spirit MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS!!! Defy the Stigma!